Yesterday is Gone, but Tomorrow Awaits

Are you feeling abandoned, rejected, and lost? Are you pissed off at your ex for putting you through this nightmare? You would probably like to see them get a taste of their own medicine and suffer the same as you. It is normal to feel this way early on in a bad breakup, but there is one thing that separates your own feelings from your ex's: one of you will be relieved when the other moves on and finds happiness. The other one will fly into a rage, thinking "how dare they move on without me!"

That, my friend is the stalker's downfall. He can't let go of hate, and he remains frozen in time - those "good 'ole days" when he was livin' the life of his dreams; he had his cake and ate it too! But you are the one who eventually says "it's not worth my time and energy to hate." You let go and refocus on the next phase of your life. You don't want to look like him; immature, unrealistic, and pathetic. Life is too short for that kind of nonsense!

The stalker always gets what he wants and deserves - those depraved things that further destroy him: women, cars, drugs. He will be miserable every day of his life, knowing that he lost his most valuable possession, and that would be you. His psyche can't handle this EPIC FAILURE. So, everything you succeed at will be another reminder of his inability to succeed at anything that matters. He will wander and search for things to make him happy, but he will never again feel secure, like he used to when he had a home.