Some days, it feels like we are fighting an uphill battle - we have all occasionally experienced this. But for the victim of domestic violence and stalking, that is how EVERY day is. Unsupportive family members and condescending peers unknowingly put more weight upon DV victims, adding to their sense of defeat. As a former victim, and as a family member to a current victim, I know the frustration felt from both sides. It hurts to watch your loved ones being abused, so you get angry instead. That's okay. But please, keep your anger in check and NEVER cut off the lines of communication. They need you, but they aren't sure how you can help. Fear of retaliation is based on the fact that violence increases by 75% after escape. That puts you in danger too. The time WILL come when they reach out; please be there waiting for them and be prepared to assist them.
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